Help! I’m 56 Years Old, What Can I Wear To Your Black Tie Wedding?

Here at Budget Fashionistawe love to help out with your style dilemmas, and is something we knew that lots of women could relate too.

Donna asks: “I have a black tie wedding to attend in January. I’m 56 years old and don’t wish to dress like the mother of the bride, nor do I wish to seem as a bridesmaid…any hints?”

Well Donna it’s important to see that you do have many choices. When she receives an invitation having a black tie dress code, the first thing that pops into the head of any woman is’what in the world and I will wear?’ However, it means formal. As Debretts puts it:’For ladies, a wise apparel (for instance, a cocktail gown ) is appropriate. It may be short or long, so long as it is not too brief. It does not need to be black.’

You Have Options

It’s safe to presume that an apparel is, unless the invite states that you are to wear full size while the black tie dress code differs between both countries and continents. So that you do have options. Whether your preference is to get organized, midi, empire or maxi, you do not have to restrict yourself.

Coast.com, paola Dress, $270

Cher Flower Dress, $215

Dress For Your Shape And Size

Just like with any occasion, the key to looking your best is to dress to your shape and dimensions. Long dresses will look better on women, whilst those with frames tend to match 50s Dior style prom dresses or styles that cut off at the knee. Contemplating what suits your body shape before you venture out shopping will help to narrow your attention.

$390, sasha Bow Maxi, coast-stores. com

Tadashi Shoji Mock 2 Piece Gown, $238.80, nordstrom.com

What About A Style

If you do not want to look like The Bride’s Mother, or you choose to go for a gown it could be better to prevent a hat. Dress and A hat can look as it is all about striking the balance that is perfect overpowering. Rather, a fascinator or hair comb will adhere to the dress code and will not overpower a dress.

Embrace Interesting Textures

You mention that the marriage you are currently attending is in January. Unless it’s a destination wedding, we assume that it will be a winter climate leaving you lots of scope to experiment with a few lavish textures. Silks , soft metallics, embellishments and brocades add an luxurious feel and will be foolproof choices for autumn/winter. Experimenting with contrasting textures is a great way to produce a top end and personalised appearance and is more contemporary than jackets and matchy-matchy gowns. Think a lace dress with an embellished or faux fur shrug for a tie guest appearance that is stunning.

Consider Your Accessories

Do not make the mistake of overlooking your accessories until the day before. When you shop on your dress, keep in mind that your outfit for a whole in the jewelry through to heels and the clutch. Stick to easy or gold, silver nude accessories if your attire is printed or bold. If your dress is on the side, you can manage to push the boundaries with a few eye catching statement gems and heels.

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